Spending Time with Loved Ones

Should we see our Loved One?

Many people who were hesitant at first have been helped in the grieving process by spending some time with their loved one before the funeral. It is important to be able to say goodbye. While the experience varies for everyone, it is an opportunity to spend time with your loved one and perhaps leave small mementos such as – gifts, cards, letters, or other meaningful items.

Resthaven Funerals offer private and comfortable viewing facilities in the homely environment of their funeral homes, for you and your family to say goodbye to your loved one. There is also the opportunity if you so wish, to have your loved one taken to your home in the days prior to the funeral.

Should Children Attend the Funeral?

Dealing with the death of someone close is difficult at any age. We need to recognise that children and teenagers grieve too, although they may express it differently.

Whether they attend the funeral is up to the family. However, in general, children do benefit from being involved, even in some small way, because it helps them to feel they are sharing their grief and honouring the person who has died. Children often like to draw a picture or write a letter or poem to put in the casket.

Just being there can help them understand, even if it takes time for them to deal with what has happened and what it means.